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Friday Peanuts – On My Mind

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Things I’m thinking about this week:

Glennon’s insightful post about having the hard conversation with your teen about how to say no to peer pressure and not just telling them to say no is wonderfully written.  Role playing is an important parental strategy and one that everyone should be utilizing even in their very young kids.

I love Lysa Terkeurst and have enjoyed watching her instagram photos from her Holy Land trip over the last few weeks.  This post entitled, “What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do” really touched me.  So often as a Mom I get overwhelmed with all of my responsibility and tasks that need to be accomplished and I find myself frozen without the will to continue since I feel like I can barely make a dent in my list.  Lysa’s encouragement to “Do the next small thing, the right way, right away” is so appropriate in that situation.

As someone who finds my world growing grayer and grayer if I’m off my meds, I think that mental health is something that needs to be discussed in our world.  I have felt the stigma associated with depression and other mental health illnesses and believe that we should be discussing the unknown causes behind the illnesses and acknowledge that they are not something that people can will themselves out of.  This article on teens hiding mental illness due to the stigma really struck me as applicable and something that everyone should consider when they discuss this issue.  Words can hurt and aren’t easily forgotten and those who suffer from mental illness need all the support that they can get.

Jessica Turner’s post “Put on that Swimsuit” is wonderful.  Especially since I’m 8 weeks out from delivery I’m unsure every time I put on a swimsuit.  But I know that my kids want me to be there enjoying the pool time with them.  Mama’s, go read Jessica’s post and get off the edge of the pool and enjoy summer with your kids!

Charlotte, Personal

Dance, Dance, Dance

Charlotte’s second showcase was the last weekend of May.  All of the pre-school dance classes were princesses and Charlotte’s class got to be Ariel.  Charlotte was over the moon about this in the fall when she found out but wished that she could have been Elsa by the time showcase came around.  Thank goodness that no one was Anna or Elsa or I think the non-Frozen princess classes would have revolted!

As it was, our little Ariel was very excited about Showcase this year.  She did fantastic at dress rehearsal and did amazing at the show.  She also got to enjoy dancing next to one of her best friends, Mimi, which made it even more fun.  We’re so proud of Charlotte and how much she loves dance!

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And a post from showcase wouldn’t be complete without including one of Charlotte and her dance icon, Abby.  Charlotte loves watching Abby dance and Abby is GOOD — like really, really, really good!  Charlotte says that she wants to dance like Abby when she grows up and I can’t wait to see if that comes true.  Abby and her friends are very sweet to Charlotte and I think Charlotte thinks that she’s a star because whenever they catch sight of her they start whispering, “There’s Abby’s cousin! There’s Abby’s cousin!”  We are so thankful to be in a studio that embraces our Christian values and has so many sweet girls for the young ones to look up to.

 

 

 

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Friday Peanuts – Books, Books, Books

Friday Peanuts

There’s only so much you can do when you’re up at 2 am nursing.  In order to keep myself awake I like to read.  Thus, I’ve read a lot of books in the last six weeks.  I thought I’d share my thoughts on some of them with you today.

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Irene Hannon – One Perfect Spring

One Perfect Spring by Irene Hannon

Haley Summers is 11 years old and writes a letter to a business that grants charitable requests to find her neighbors long lost son.  Many lives are changed as Keith Watson is tasked with the project.  A tale of discovery, romance against all odds, and a rekindling of their relationship with God, you will enjoy reading about Claire Summers, Keith Watson, Maureen Chandler, and David McMillan as their lives are drawn together through the search for Maureen’s son.

A compelling story that draws you in to the lives of the characters and entices you to continue reading.  This novel is very well written and invites the reader into the lives of the characters.  Addressing many common issues facing people today such as a distance from God and how relationships evolve this book with appeal to all ages of readers.

Publication date: May 6, 2014
Genre: Christian Fiction, Contemporary
Setting: Present day St. Louis, Missouri 
Rating: A

*I received a copy of this book from the publisher.  I was not required to write a review nor was I instructed what to write. All opinions are my own.  Please see my link/review disclosures for more information.

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The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt

The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt

Theo Decker is 13 years old when he survives a harrowing incident in New York City that claims the life of his mother and leaves him in possession of a world famous painting.  Since his father abandoned he and his mother he stays with the wealthy family of one his friends until his father returns for him and takes him to his new life in Las Vegas.  As Theo ages he’s faced with many choices.  Grappling with his longing for his mother, an unfamiliar living situation, and an uncomfortable relationship with his father, Theo spirals into recklessness and heavy drug use.  And throughout it all his constant awareness of the stolen painting and what he should do with it lingers in his mind.

A coming of age novel that travels with Theo from his teenage years until adulthood, the reader is immediately drawn into Theo’s life and is immersed in his quest to understand his new life and adapt to living without his mother.  There is prevalent drug use throughout the novel as well as violence and occasional adult situations.  But this is a book that you won’t want to put down as you feel that you are right next to Theo as he navigates the underworld while maintaining relationships with those who have no knowledge of his unsavory associations.

Winner of the 2014 Pulitzer Prize for fiction, this novel is intriguing, captivating, disturbing, and melancholy.  If you’re looking for an uplifting coming of age novel this is not the novel for you.  But if you want to be entertained and transported to an unfamiliar reality then you should read The Goldfinch as soon as possible.

Publication date: October 22, 2013
Genre: Fiction, Contemporary
Setting: New York, Las Vegas, Europe
Rating: A

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No Dark Valley by Jamie Langston Turner

No Dark Valley  by Jamie Langston Turner

Celia Coleman faces the death of her grandmother and having to return to her grandmother’s hometown for the funeral and to take care of her estate.  Celia’s memories of the small Georgia town are not fond but as she spends time with her grandmother’s things she’s faced with the realization that she must come to terms with her and her grandmother’s past.  This includes finding answers to the questions about her grandmother’s Christian religion.

Bruce Healy lives with his sister and must face the ghosts of his promiscuous past as he tries to move forward in his new Christian faith.  As he encounters his next door neighbor Celia, can they find what they have in common or will the memories of their pasts force them to remain alone?

The first half of the book is told from Celia’s point of view and the second half from Bruce’s.  This was disconcerting to me as I was not expecting the change in narrator.  Despite that, the novel is captivating and insists that the reader confront any unresolved questions and fears that they have from the past.

Publication date: November 1, 2008
Genre: Christian Fiction, Contemporary
Setting: South Carolina, Georgia
Rating: A-

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One Lavender Ribbon by Heather Burch

One Lavender Ribbon by Heather Burch

Adrienne Carter has found herself divorced and buys an old Victorian fixer-upper in Southern Florida to escape Chicago and the memories of her unhappy marriage.  During her renovations she finds a stack of letters tied with a lavender ribbon.  As she reads through the letters from a WWII solider to his girlfriend she is transported in time and drawn into the lives of the man and woman.

Adrienne sets out to find the owner of the letters and discovers new friends and a type of family that she’s never known before.  With the best of intentions she continues to make decisions motivated by the content of the letters and deals with the fallout when the solider’s grandson is not happy.  Adrienne’s quest to discover the origin of the love expressed in the letters  makes her reconsider her determination to never love again.

The novel is an epic romance that covers multiple generations and many obstacles.  The reader will find himself cheering on Adrienne even as her schemes seem a little unthought out and precarious.  This is a wonderful summer read.

Publication date: July 1, 2014
Genre: Fiction, Contemporary
Setting: Southern Florida
Rating: A-

 

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Friday Peanuts – Life with Three

Friday Peanuts

 

I knew that life with three kids was going to be crazy, but I’m not sure I could have imagined just how crazy it actually is.  I know it’s the sleep deprivation (she’s gone four hours between feedings! like twice!) or what, but it’s kicking my tail.  So in an effort to take my mind off of how tired I am, here are some random thoughts today!

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1. I wouldn’t have made it even this far without lots of help and support.  Thanks to those who have brought us dinner or sent gifts or kind words.  It’s so wonderful to have so much family close by and I’m so thankful for all that they do for us.  In addition, I might have the best husband in the world and he is so wonderful to pitch in and help all the time!  He’s the best!  And in one of the most fun developments, it’s been wonderful to get to have text chats in the middle of the night with my friend Natalie who had a sweet little girl four days after Hadley was born!  It’s much less depressing to be up at 2 am when you can be texting back and forth with a friend in the exact same spot!

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2. I’ve been working on new products and adding things to my shop.  One thing that’s been added are some left over Frozen 10″ melamine plates that I got for favors for Charlotte’s birthday party.  If you’re local and want to pick up from me use code ‘LOCALPICKUP2014’ to not pay shipping.

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3. We had Hadley’s newborn photo shoot with Erin Cobb when she was one week old and we got to see all of our proofs last night.  I can’t describe to you how spectacular they are!  If you’re anywhere in the North Alabama area you really should come and see Erin!  She’s fantastic with kids (and grown ups) and gets amazing shots with what looks like little effort!  As an example, know that before we arrived James was saying that he only wanted to be in pictures by himself.  And yet within 15 minutes of arriving at the shoot, Erin had him not only in pictures but smiling!  She’s a miracle worker!

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4. Thanks to my Kindle and lots of nighttime feedings that haven’t matched up with Natalie’s, I’ve been reading a lot.  I thoroughly enjoyed this new book by Deeanne Gist.  I’ve always been a big fan of her books which are typically historical, Christian fiction.  This one didn’t disappoint!

Set in Chicago during the 1893 World’s Fair, Fair Play follows a female doctor, Billy Jack Tate, as she tries to make a name for herself in a man’s profession.  Things start out complicated in the beginning of the book when she can’t gain admittance to one of the large lectures that she is speaking at because the guard doesn’t believe that she’s a doctor.  The story just continues to have one mishap after another as she finds that being the doctor in the Woman’s Hall at the fair isn’t exactly what she was anticipating.

As Billy Jack adjusts to life as a female doctor, she develops a friendship with one of the guards for the fair, Hunter Scott.  Billy Jack and Hunter learn a lot about each other as they conquer various obstacles that are thrown in their way.  The story is beautifully written, full of adventure and laughter, and just enough suspense to keep you guessing!

Publication date: May 6, 2014
Genre: Christian Fiction, Historical
Setting: 1893 Chicago, IL
Rating: A +

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Friday Peanuts – The End of Pregnancy Edition

Friday Peanuts

 

So I’m sitting here after having my last doctor’s appointment before my scheduled c-section next Friday and this morning my doctor told me that she thinks I might go into labor.  At this point I’m basically frozen in a state of panic while I try and figure out all that absolutely has to be done before we go to the hospital while trying not to do too much to put myself into labor.  What a feeling!

In an effort to try and calm myself down I thought I’d share all the random things that are going on around here.  I’d try to make this more than a list but at 39 weeks I think that’s asking a little much, don’t you?

1. You know that dream where even though you’ve been out of college for years you wake up panicked because you overslept your final?  I’m currently having it where I oversleep my c-section.  Not fun to wake up to that kind of panic or to think that I might have to go even longer than planned in this pregnancy!

2. I got a wonderful surprise this week when I opened up my Spring 2014 edition of Stationery Trends magazine.  I was elated to spy the Bright Happy Day cards from my shop featured as one of the “Fresh Picks”!

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3. Charlotte had a wonderful birthday party last Sunday, despite the rain.  It was originally scheduled to be held outdoors at our local Botanical Gardens but because of storms we had to move it to our house.  She and her friends still had a blast at our “Frozen” themed party.  I had hoped to share pictures before Hadley’s birth but I’m thinking I might not get around to it.  If not, they’ll be on here eventually!

4. This was me at 38 weeks after Charlotte’s party.  I am carrying Hadley so differently than I did with the other two.  Maybe it’s a result of running after the other two during the pregnancy??!? Who knows.  All I know is I’m ready to meet this little girl!

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5. Any advice about coming home with more than two kids?? I’m not ashamed to admit that I am terrified about the prospect of being in charge of three kids during the day by myself.  Any advice or encouragement would be greatly appreciated! 🙂

6. We had really bad tornado’s early this week that were reminiscent of the April 27th tornados three years ago.  A swimmer on the Alabama swim team died saving his girlfriend from a retaining wall as it collapsed due to flooding.  I’m very thankful that they never got close enough to us this time for us to have to go into our safe place.  Please join me in praying for all of those who lost family and friends and their homes and businesses.  As we’ve seen over the last three years, tornados leave incredible scars and take a very long time to rebuild and recover from.

Ok, I might have calmed myself down to a low frenzy instead of an insane one.  Back to trying to pack our bags for the hospital and make sure we have clean clothes! Happy weekend!

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Friday Peanuts

Friday Peanuts

 

Another Friday, another attempt at becoming consistent with the Friday Peanuts posts.  🙂

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1. Mother Two Daughters Necklace Set

A few weeks ago I posted about this Mother/Daughter necklace but lamented the fact that I’m about to have two girls.  A friend of mine messaged me a week or so after that and told me that there’s a two daughter version as well!

2. Kids Chapter Book Suggestions

With the coming arrival of Hadley, I’d like to start doing something that just Charlotte and I can do to make her feel a little special and recognize her age.  I’m thinking that starting to read longer books together, just the two of us, might do the trick.  I’ve pinned a number of related posts about this on Pinterest and now need to find a stellar one to start our series off.  Any suggestions for a basically 5 year old little girl who loves animals, dance, princesses, and has a very sensitive heart and doesn’t like to see people be mean or get hurt??

Over 50 Chapter Books for Preschoolers

Read Aloud Chapter Books for 4-6 Years Olds

First Grade Read Aloud Books

10 Books to read with your 4-7 year old

Best Early Chapter Books for Kids about Animals

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3. McCoy Pottery

In looking for a Christmas gift for my mother-in-law’s Mom I remembered that she collects McCoy pottery.  While searching Etsy for it I feel in love with the antique look and vibrant colors.  Jason got me a set of strawberry canisters for Christmas and now I’m dying to add more pieces to my collection.  They would be the perfect thing to put in my upper cabinets in the kitchen!

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4.The Smart Girl’s Guide to God, Guys, and the Galaxy

I recently read this book as part of my book review site that I joined and I’m so glad that I did.  I wanted to read it even though it’s aimed at teen girls because I figured I should get a head start on those teenage years since I’m looking at two girls with teenage years.  I’m so glad that I took the time to read it, not only so that I’m prepared, but so that I can apply a lot of what I learned in my life and in my daughter’s lives now!

The book is a series of 100 short chapters that cover everything from reading your Bible, gossip, relationships, anger, fashion and much  more.  Each chapter is written in an easy to identify with tone and doesn’t talk down to girls in the least (something I found quite often in books as I was growing up).  I have been a fan of Susie Shellenberger since I read Brio while growing up.  Susie (and her co-author, Kristin Weber) are able to communicate with teens in a way that most other adults can’t.

While I think that this would be a great book for teenage girls, I also don’t mind recommending it to Mom’s with kids of all ages or women in general.  I ended up highlighting lots of the book!  Here are some of my favorite quotes that helped remind me of the big picture:

“[There are people that] seem to be people magnets — others are just drawn to them.  It’s because they’ve learned an important secret: Be nice to everyone!”

“Simply doing what God made you to do glorifies Him.”

“Your reputation will always align with your character.  Your character is who you are — what defines you.  And your reputation is everyone’s knowledge of your character.”

“Knowing apologetics will not only make you a more effective witness, it will strengthen your own faith as you learn more than ever that Christianity is the Ultimate Truth.”

“Unforgiveness shows lack of trust in God.  It reveals that we don’t think God can or will take care of the situation fairly.”

The Smart Girls Guide is a quick read that will help you realign yourself with those things that you were taught in high school but maybe disregarded.  Things that will help you become a better person and a better Christ follower.  There are, of course, sections of the book that are easy to skim as an adult, but would be very well suited for a teen who is reading the book!

Publication date: April 1, 2014
Genre: Christian Non-Fiction, Teen
Setting: Present Day
Rating: A

5. Memory Quilts

I have a big plastic container full of special articles of clothing for both kids that I would really like to get made into a quilt for them.  While I hate to pay someone to do it since I’ve made a similar quilt before and know I could do it, I also know that my time is super limited and if I want to get these done before Hadley turns 5 I might should contract this out.  Anyone who knows someone who does quilts like these, please let me know! I’d rather use someone semi-local so that there’s no risk of everything getting lost in the shipping process.

6. Family Vision

Do you have a family vision?  After reading this post I’m thinking that Jason and I should sit down and create one.  Maybe we’ll find time in the hospital…. 🙂