James,
I feel like every month I write this but I am at a loss as to how we are halfway finished with your first year. I console myself by telling myself that we still have a whole half left but if it goes any faster than this first half I might have to resort to putting bricks on your head to stop you from growing!
You are such a little BOY now! It’s hard to believe how much spunk you’re developing each and every day and watching you grow and explore your surroundings is so much fun. You are up to something new almost constantly now and I just watch in amazement as you develop right before my eyes.
You are, just like your parents and your sister, stubborn. If you don’t want to do something you won’t do it. Case in point, rolling over. You did it maybe five or six times and then decided that it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be and have refused to do it ever since. It drives me batty but you couldn’t care less. Even if we let you wail on the floor with tears coming down for 30 minutes you still won’t give in. You’ve got an iron will when it comes to rolling over and I hope it doesn’t portend an even more stubborn streak when you’re a toddler!
Second case in point, cereal. We hoped that your lack of joy in eating was just because we were feeding you rice cereal but you have yet to develop a love for oatmeal either. And it’s not just that you make faces while you eat it, it’s that you REFUSE to eat it. You’ll put it in your mouth, roll it around, let it stay in there and get nice and slimy and then stick your tongue out and let it fall back out of your mouth. I’ve been more diligent the last few weeks about feeding you consistently but it hasn’t changed anything. Since you’ve shown us some that you can eat it you just don’t want to eat it, we’re forging ahead with some carrots and peas this week. We’ll see how that goes!
You’re still a great sleeper but we’ve changed your schedule a little and dropped your late evening nap. Right now you’re eating at 7:30, 10:30, 2:30, 5:45, and 7:30 (6 ounces when we feed you with a bottle). You go down for a nap at 9:15, 12:15, and 4:15. We can definitely tell when it’s getting close to time to go down again because you start getting fussy and your noises escalate. But as soon as we lay you down you’re a goner until it’s time to wake up. You have started waking up early in the morning though. Not that you’re making a lot of noise, but when we turn on the light you are usually sitting there grinning ear to ear at us.
You never really took to a passy but you suck your thumb when you sleep. Your typical position is with one thumb in your mouth/right next to your mouth and your other hand at your side tucked right under your body. It looks pretty uncomfortable to us, but you might like it because that’s how you are when we look at you on the monitor 95% of the time!
You have become so interactive this month! You are a pro at sitting now and I feel pretty comfortable leaving you on the carpeted floor while I get up and wash my hands or do something else. Yesterday I left you sitting while Sissy went potty, washed her hands, etc which takes a while since she’s a slowpoke sometimes and you just sat looking around the entire time. Since you didn’t have any toys you eventually got bored with sitting up and wanted to lay down but you kept looking around and couldn’t figure out how to get yourself down without bonking your head on the floor. So you just looked up at me and started fussing, flailing your arms until I laid you down.
You are also a big talker now. We’re getting some “ah” and “oh” sounds from you but mostly we’re getting a lot of high pitched squealing. You love doing it back to us, as in we say something and then you squeal back to us. You especially love doing this when you sit up with Sissy after waking her up. Y’all can sit there and “talk” for five minutes before y’all get bored. You do make a sound that sounds an awful lot like “hey!” but I know it’s just a coincidence.
You still love your jumper and occasionally will be happy in your bouncer for a few minutes as long as you can see someone. You do ok on your tummy as long as you have toys but are content to play on your back reaching for different toys for an indefinite amount of time. You have strong little legs buddy and love standing on our legs. You are so strong that we only have to hold your hands to balance you and you can keep yourself up for a while before plopping back down.
In order to give me a break sometimes we occasionally put on Praise Baby to keep Sissy occupied for a few minutes. She loves dancing around the den to it and you adore watching it and her. You just look back and forth the whole time with a look of delight on your face. Actually, you love watching Charlotte dance any time any place. It’s so sweet to see you forming a bond already!
You are reaching out for us a little. Mostly you love to reach out to touch our faces. And grab our hands which you immediately try and stick in your mouth. And let me just say, you’ve got a strong bite young man! Those poor teeth of your still haven’t come through but it’s not for lack of trying to claw them out on your part or for lack of drool to soften your gums up! Thankfully they don’t seem to really bother you so other than constantly choking yourself by trying to stick your fist down your throat you’re ok.
Even though you’re still sleeping a lot it’s easier to get out and run errands with you these days. As long as I’m quick you’re happy to be in the Baby Bjorn and I think you really enjoy being in it to take Charlotte in to and pick her up from school. And you just look around while we’re in the car checking things out. You like to chew on Sophie when you’re in your car seat.
Speaking of Sophie, she’s probably your favorite toy. You also love the little books that crinkle that you can chew on. And we found Mr. Whoozit at Memma and Papa’s on Sunday and you loved him. You really enjoy anything that you can make make noise and that you can put in your mouth.
You are growing more than just vocally! It seems like you have grown a lot over the last month and I can’t wait to see what your height and weight are next week when we go for your checkup. Some of your six month outfits are getting to be tight and your 6-9 month outfits fit you really well although they look HUGE hanging on the hanger and I can’t believe that they fit. We had to get you 9 month pj’s and I thought for sure that they would swallow you but they are just a tad bit roomy but fit you fine. We moved you up to a size 3 diaper since your size 2’s would leak almost every time we put one on you and while they look really big too when we pull them out they fit you great.
I still call you Jamesy most of the time little one and I’m not sure that I’ll ever stop. I remember looking at you in my arms for the first time when you were born and just thinking that “James” was such a big name for such a little boy. So I dubbed you Jamesy and while you’ll hopefully always be known at school and everywhere else as James, you’ll probably remain my Jamesy forever. Although, I do promise to try and stop saying it when you’re 16 and bringing girls home but I can’t make any solid promises. 🙂
Your Daddy, sister, and I love you so much baby boy. You bring so much joy and happiness to our lives and we can’t imagine a second without you. Your laid back personality is a balm to my stressed out soul and I drink up every second that I can with you.
I love you so much Jamesy-boy,
Mommy